What happens when empathy and compassion leave the room? When the ropes on the Bridges of empathy are thin, worn and neglected.
What happens when empathy and compassion disappear? When the threads of our Bridges of Empathy grow thin, frayed, and neglected, the consequences ripple through our communities, our workplaces, and our lives.
“Sometimes a person dies, and nobody cares. Maybe they’re just the wrong kind of person, like my sister Naomi—someone like that. The cops just stand by and watch. She’s just some white trash, a meth head. Let her die!
But one of your own? That’s a whole different story, isn’t it? I’ve seen cops trade their lives for kids they’ve never even met. Ain’t that something? Of course, why trade when you can just look away?”
These bitter words, spoken by a grieving brother seeking revenge in In the Line of Duty, cut deeply. His frustration over a system that ignored his sister’s suffering while heroically saving others exposes an uncomfortable truth: too often, we categorize people into “worthy” and “unworthy,” “one of us” and “one of them.” And for those deemed “the wrong kind of person,” empathy dries up, compassion wanes, and inaction becomes easy.
But how did we let the ropes of our Bridges of Empathy wear so thin?
The Call to Strengthen Empathy
When we lose the ability to see others as human, we become complicit in their suffering. Strengthening these bridges requires conscious effort—pulling on those emotional ropes that connect us to others and reinforcing them with perspective, action, and understanding.
I was reminded of this while watching the final moments of In the Line of Duty. Despite the anger and pain woven into the storyline, there was also hope—a reminder that, when united, people can rise above divisions and work together as one.
So, what’s the state of your Bridges of Empathy? When was the last time you reinforced those connections, ensuring they can carry the weight of someone else’s struggles?
Steps to Rebuild
To rebuild these bridges, we must begin with perspective. Look at the world through someone else’s eyes. Step into their experience, even when it’s uncomfortable. Refuse to turn a blind eye simply because someone doesn’t fit into your “circle.”
Ask yourself: What stirs me into action? What tugs at the ropes of my empathy?
In the song Live Like Giants by Raphael Lake, the lyrics implore us to act:
“We’ve got to stand up, we can’t be silent. Stand up, we live like giants.”
Living like giants means stepping beyond our comfort zones to authentically connect with those who are different from us. It means dismantling the “masks of tolerance” we sometimes wear and replacing them with genuine care and compassion. For some it means stepping out of our caves of privilege so that we can genuinely interact with those who are different.
Moving Beyond “The Wrong Kind of Person”
When we can set aside prejudices and extend empathy to those we might otherwise ignore, we strengthen our humanity. We become bigger—individually and collectively. We foster environments that are inclusive, compassionate, and just.
The Six Stages Framework challenges us to rebuild and repair these Bridges of Empathy, enabling us to better relate to and understand those who inhabit different spaces from our own. It asks us to reflect on the lives of those who are suffering, to acknowledge their plight, and to take action.
Living Like Giants
How are you building your Bridges of Empathy? How are you living like a giant in these challenging times?
To live like giants, we must rise to the challenge of extending empathy and compassion, especially to those who are different from us—those we might otherwise overlook. Only then can we look in the mirror and say, I am better than this. We are better than this.
When we repair the ropes of empathy, we shine with renewed hope, ensuring that no one—no matter their story—is ever deemed “the wrong kind of person.”
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